
Ruby and other young women in Rock Castle
Through these signs of change in her world, Ruby attended school. Education fueled her ambition, and she worked hard to earn "good marks" in her studies. Even though she studied, read and had chores to do at home, there was plenty of time spent with other young people in the community. "Frolics" at Bear Rocks, visiting among relatives, and church activities were also part of the young girl's life during her years of growing up. Ruby joined Stuart Brethren Church, not far from her home, in her teenage years. An older sister, Stella, was ill for a time after the birth of a child, and Ruby spent a great deal of time helping tend the baby and look after her sister's home. Stella recovered, although she never seemed to regain her full health. But another tragedy struck the Underwood family, when Ruby's older brother Charles died of spinal meningitis in his teens. The loss of her brother deeply affected Ruby and the family. Sam and Addie buried their son on top of a high hill on the family farm. The single grave is enclosed with a wall made of fieldstones.
Loss and duty to her family did not stand in the way of Ruby's ambitions. When she had learned all she could at Stamping Birches School, she attended Harris Chapel, at a distance that required her to board with a family that lived closer to the school. These were probably relatives, and young Ruby would have felt comfortable with them, despite the separation from her immediate family. Then, when she had completed all of her elementary education, Ruby set her sights on high school, which required a journey of four miles into the neighboring community of Meadows of Dan.

Ruby Underwood and Eva West
Ruby boarded with the West family, riding a black mare named Molly every Sunday evening and returning home Friday night. Molly was pastured while at home in a big field at the top of the mountain, along with some of the cattle and other livestock. The mare learned that when Ruby came to get her that she was going to have to work, and would retreat to the far reaches of the field, avoiding capture as long as possible. Young Ruby would become frustrated with the stubborn animal, chasing her around until at last Molly finally gave in. Ruby led the horse back down to the house, where she was saddled and burdened with the necessary books and clothes for the week. An outcropping of stone in front of the house served as a mounting stone, and Ruby would set off from home alone, to ride the four miles to Meadows of Dan for her education.
Some of the rides must have been pleasant, with spring blooming across the fields, or autumn leaves blazing over the mountains. But some rides were difficult, as snow blew across the path with bitter winds, drifting over the roads and settling into hollows, disguising the well-known path. Sometimes the horse just walked over fences, so deeply buried in snow that they couldn't be detected by her young rider. Both horse and rider were probably relieved when they sighted the West homeplace, where the mare could rest in a shed near the house and Ruby was welcomed by the family.

Ruby Underwood, Unknown Location
High school at that time in Meadows of Dan only reached the 11th grade, and Ruby, with her sights set on college, took every advanced course available to her. Algebra and Latin were two of the subjects mentioned by her, although mathematics classes were not her favorites. At some point she was helped to apply for a space at Ferrum College in Franklin County. She was accepted, but her father opposed the continuation of her education. Without his support and permission Ruby could not fulfill this long cherished ambition, and although she outwardly accepted his decision, as a dutiful daughter, she never quite forgave him for standing in her way.
Sam Underwood was an intelligent man, and progressive in some of his attitudes. He built a Delco plant on Rock Castle Creek behind his home to provide electricity for the first electric lights in any home in the area. He enjoyed good horses, and it was hard for Addie to keep him from racing the other men in the area on their way to church. It is hard today to understand Sam's attitude; outside the mountains, even then, things were changing for women. Just a few years later Ruby's youngest sister, Virginia, was allowed to further her education and become a nurse.
Ruby settled back into family life, the long years of schooling behind her. A picture from about this time shows a healthy, pretty girl with a bright smile and intelligent eyes. Although her ambitions were crushed her spirit remained lively, and a long life in a changing world lay ahead.
To Be continued....


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